It doesn’t matter whether you’re single, in a relationship, or married, once your sexual drive kicks in there’s just no turning back. It will continue to bug you forever. And every time, it will demand for more.
Most people think that once they hit a ceiling in their relationship (e.g. starts to feel bored, excitement starts to tone down, over familiarity, etc.), the only option left to take is to get out. After all, there’s so many fish left in the sea, it’s not like it would be a problem if they decided to quit with one partner. There’s always going to be someone out there who can take their place.
But then again, is it really like that? Is it that easy to let go of someone you’ve made memories with, someone you’ve probably envisioned the future with? Read a related article here: https://www.simplemindfulness.com/letting-go-is-hard/.
People aren’t dispensable, especially when you’ve found that one person that gets you. It may occur to you at the moment that there are tons of options out there but no two people are the same. There’s no guarantee that the bond you’ve shared can be recreated, let alone reproduced. As they say, you’re a fool to let go of the moon while you’re off chasing stars.
You see, the reality is that every relationship will hit its ceiling at some point. It could be that you’ve share way too many things together; you’ve become too involved with each other’s lives that everything is now familiar. But you must also ask yourself: Is that such a bad thing? Doesn’t boring also mean comfort, warmth, and a familiar bond that’s so deep everything now feels natural?
Just because things have settled doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed. It’s never about sparks or butterflies anyway. No matter who you’re with, over familiarity is inevitable. No matter how many times you change partners, the end result is the same. The only danger is that in your persistent pursuit of excitement, you lose the most valuable thing of all: Love.
So if you feel like the flames of passion are waning, putting out the fire with a damp cloth is the last thing you should do. Instead, call on the wind of creativity to alight the simmering sparks. Sometimes, all it takes to set the fire blazing again is a little creativity in the bedroom. Lucky for you, we have just the thing for it: Sex toys.
Adults Got To Play Too, You Know
It doesn’t matter how old you are, you will forever find games exciting – especially when they’re fresh, fun, and exciting. It’s just that as you get older, the types of games you play also “diversify.” There are games you can openly play with anyone on a field day while there are also those that you can only play when the lights are turned off and nobody else is looking.
Welcome to the world of adult play.
Adult play refers to erotic and sexually arousing activities bona fide adults engage in with their respective partners behind closed doors. There are games that require the participation of so-called sex toys and machines that further enhance the sensual experiences of both parties. If you’re looking for a new “thrill” in your relationship, you can always have one of these erotic play stuff delivered to your doorstep.
Common Examples of Sex Machines
Sex toys or machines vary in size, color, shape, and function. However, you can be absolutely sure about one thing: They are all meant to give or amplify pleasure.
There are devices for both men and women or both. For example, the most popular toys for men are flesh lights, automatic or hands-free masturbators, sex dolls, and the like. There are even novelty items like stress balls made to look like boobies. These erotic toys are definitely a source of pleasure for many people – including those who regard themselves of different orientation.
For women, the most common and popular toys are pocket and life-size dildos, vibrators, and even Kegel balls. Kegel used to be an exercise believed to strengthen a woman’s abdominal and vaginal muscles usually in preparation for birth. And while many still regard it as such, other couples decided to be creative with its uses and it is now widely used as a sex toy as well. You can read review about some of the most popular sex toys for women online. You can even find reviews for the more extreme ones.
If you’re into BDSM or other peculiar fetishes, there are pleasure devices specifically made for these as well. Just try not to get overboard with the whole bondage and sadism thing.
Role-playing is also something you might want to consider in the bedroom. You can play teacher and student in university playing naughty, doctor and nurse sneaking in the hospital for quick sex, even landlord and tenant who’s doing sexual favors in exchange for overdue rent (weird, I know). But the thing with role-playing is that you can be anything and everything you want you and your partner to be. I think that giving life to the roles you play (no matter how weird or out of this world) is part of the fun as well.
As you can see, there are just so many ways to spice up your sex life with your partner. There are so many things you can do to light up the fire in your relationship. If you think that you’ve tried every possible route in your relationship, better think again. The world of adult play is a vast one so there’s definitely something new to do everyday.
Of course, if you’re new to this type of industry (and your partner, even greener), it’s best to start with the more wholesome sex machines and toys. You can explore other possibilities as you go along and find your comfort level as you try out different types of plays. It is best to remember that not all toys are for everyone. And nobody’s really forcing you to try them out.
Just stick with what you can handle.